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Tuesday, June 23, 2009 9:55 PM CDT
Man may face murder charge in child's death
2-year-old Charleston boy died Sunday

By DAVE FOPAY, Staff Writer
dfopay@jg-tc.com

CHARLESTON — A man arrested for allegedly causing the injuries that killed a 2-year-old Charleston boy will likely be charged with first-degree murder.

Jamie L. Thomasson, 29, was arrested after the boy, Holden A. Jones, was found dead Sunday morning. State’s Attorney Steve Ferguson announced the arrest Monday during a news conference at Charleston City Hall.

Thomasson lives in Springfield but is dating the boy’s mother, Amy Bennett, and sometimes spent about a week at a time living with her and the boy at 1843 Union St. Apt. B, Charleston, Ferguson said. He said the boy’s father, Jason Jones, lives at a different Charleston address.

Thomasson was baby-sitting the boy Saturday night and Sunday morning while Bennett was at work and called police Sunday morning to report that the boy was unresponsive, Ferguson said. Paramedics found that Holden was dead when they arrived about 7:30 a.m.

Thomasson told police he was playing roughly with the boy about 9 p.m. Saturday and described “choke slamming” him in a wrestling-style move and said the boy hit a piece of furniture, according to a news release that Ferguson distributed Monday. Ferguson wouldn’t elaborate when asked if there were more details of Thomasson’s account of the incident.

The news release also said Thomasson told police he realized the boy was hurt and put him in bed, and said Holden later fell out of bed and was stiff and shaking. Thomasson said he shook the boy to try to revive him, and several hours later put the boy in a shower to try to wake him, it said.

He said he returned the boy to bed and fell asleep himself, then called police when he woke and found the child unresponsive, according to the news release.

The prepared statement said the doctor who conducted an autopsy at Memorial Medical Center in Springfield reported to Charleston police that the cause of death was serious injury to the boy’s brain and spinal cord; Holden also had a broken collar bone.

Ferguson said he’s still reviewing the case to decide what charges to file against Thomasson and a decision on that could come next week, but a charge of first-degree murder is likely. A first-degree murder charge can allege a suspect should have known injury could result in death and doesn’t have to accuse someone of intending to kill the victim.

Thomasson is jailed without bond and is schedule to appear in court on July 6, Ferguson also said. He said he didn’t know if Thomasson has an attorney representing him yet.

Ferguson commended Coroner Ed Schniers for scheduling the autopsy “promptly,” which “allowed the police department to act quickly” and decide to make the arrest. He also said police and the coroner’s office “spent a great deal of time” working on the case over the weekend.

Contact Dave Fopay at dfopay@jg-tc.com or 238-6858.

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bp042900 wrote on Jun 22, 2009 1:02 PM:

" Holden, we love and miss you, rest in peace you sweet boy. "

spuds57 wrote on Jun 22, 2009 10:45 PM:

" Why in the world would someone want to restle around like that with a two yr. old child. And why in the heck did he not call for help when the child would not respond? That makes no sence. My thoughts and prayers are with you Kim,and Amy and your Family, rest in peace baby Holden,Jason my thoughts are with you and your family also, "

sftball mom wrote on Jun 22, 2009 11:16 PM:

" why would you be choke slamming a two year old boy playing or not? this man deserves to go to prison for life. the whole account of the incident just makes no sense. in my opinion the mother should be held accountable as well for bringing strange men home and leaving her children with them. "

misfit2 wrote on Jun 22, 2009 11:18 PM:

" you dont pretend "choke slamming" with a 2yr old!! what was he thinking--if this is really what happened!! "

thefunnyfarm wrote on Jun 22, 2009 11:21 PM:

" what monster goes to sleep when a child is falling out of bed stiff and shaking and then puts him in the shower to revive him, when that doesn't work just goes to sleep...only to wake up and find him dead. My goodness is all I can say. What a terrible tragedy "

concernedparent wrote on Jun 22, 2009 11:49 PM:

" Our prayers go out to Jason and Amy and all the family and friends of baby Holden. This is a sencless tradgedy and I hope this "man" and I use the term loosely, is punished to the fullest extent of the law. Rest in Peace Holden, you will be missed and loved always. "

grandmotherof10 wrote on Jun 23, 2009 2:06 AM:

" I am very sorry Amy of your loss. Your uncle told me alot about what happen. I have raised 4 daughters of my own and around 12 fosterchildren and I know how each one is special to their parents in some way and you will be able to remember that special thing about Holden. And as for Jason I am also sorry for your lose but hurting others will not get your son back but put you with his killer. Be strong as this is a very very hard times and a time one can easly say something they will regret the rest of ones life. You are in my prays. Penny L. Stanley, Clergy "

just watching wrote on Jun 23, 2009 6:27 AM:

" Unbelievable,this is very sad.How could anybody do that to a baby? I hope the state's attorney's office can find someone capable of properly handling the trial,so this guy won't be able to hurt other children. "

Lilly wrote on Jun 23, 2009 7:02 AM:

" These charges will all be reduced, and he will receive less than a 8 yr sentence. They also need to lose that picture with the headline. The tactics used by that detective, and our own SA, always raise extra questions in my mind. A first-degree murder charge can allege a suspect should have known injury could result in death and doesnt have to accuse someone of intending to kill the victim. Sounds harder to prove, but I'm sure those 2 can twist this story to their liking.
It is a shame the child deceased, but it is also a shame for us to be led into believing anything out of these investigators mouths. They have proven their incompetence time and time again. Justice for that little boy begins with an unbiased investigation. Not with the detective whispering in the coroners ear? "

61938 wrote on Jun 23, 2009 7:10 AM:

" What a shame. If you read Mr. Worthless' lips they say "I'm ready to make a plea deal". "

slap63 wrote on Jun 23, 2009 9:14 AM:

" Don't drop the ball on this one Ferguson. This man needs serious jail time. He committed murder and tried to hide it. And you people can post innocent until proven guilty all you want, but when he didn't call 911 the minute the boy was hurt was WRONG and he was trying to cover up what he did. NO EXCUSES for this. "

Rohn Gordon wrote on Jun 23, 2009 9:23 AM:

" I liked to play rough with my kids. I still play rough with the grand kids. But there is a hell of a difference in rough and deadly. Also the playing rough defense is usually tried when it comes to killing a child like that.
My thoughts are with the mother and rest involved with the child. least the little fellow will never suffer again. Rest In Peace little guy. And we should all remember if there is a heaven he will have lots of play mates, as this kind of crap happens way to often. "

Harry Potter wrote on Jun 23, 2009 9:28 AM:

" 61938 said: Joe you are correct in stating how negative most posters are on here. "

Here's a good example of that:

" What a shame. If you read Mr. Worthless' lips they say "I'm ready to make a plea deal". "

Enough said! "

Rockin Rotty wrote on Jun 23, 2009 9:48 AM:

" It sounds as if all parties concerned could of used some head help.

My condolences to family & friends. "

robin8002 wrote on Jun 23, 2009 10:08 AM:

" Lilly, first of all get a clue! This man killed a two year old. So stop taking his side. The Detectives, The States Attorneys Office and The Coroners Office should all be commended. They acted in a professional manner and a timely fashon to get to the bottom of this terrible crime and get this man behind bars. This is one of the roles of these offices, To keep people like him off the street and away from our children. The only incompetent thing I see here is your character. Good job to the Charleston Police Department, Coles County States Attorneys Office and Steve Ferguson and to the Coles Coroners Office and Ed Schniers. "

Local Observer wrote on Jun 23, 2009 10:44 AM:

" Amy is my cousin, and also a neighbor. I cannot believe someone would hurt a child in this manner, and put him in bed, knowing Holden needed medical treatment. As more details come out, I am disgusted! This "man" had been in their lives for a very short time. But for sftball mom to place blame on Amy is absurd. You have obviously never been a single mother who has had to leave her children with someone less desirable, to be able to provide for your family. I am in no way condoning the fact that she did leave Holden with this man, but she did what she had to do. There had been no previous signs that anything like this could have occured, to my knowledge. The person responsible for Holdens death is the monster who is currently being held on first degree murder charges. There were many hours that went by, with this "man" knowing that Holden was seriously injured. This child suffered a very painful death im sure. I do forsee Steve Ferguson dropping the ball on this one slap63, he will eventually plea to a lesser charge. I firmly believe in an eye for an eye, and he should have the same injury's inflicted upon him as this baby did. I do not find life in prison or the death penalty appropriate in this situation. To Amy and her family, my heart goes out to you in your time of loss. Also, to Jason and Debbie, I am so sorry for your loss. All I can hope for is that everyone can keep things civil for Holden. His visitation and funeral are for HIM, days to remember this child. This isnt about either parent or family, only this poor child who left this life for senseless reasons and way before his time. He never actually had a chance in life, and it is so, so sad. My thoughts are with all of you. "

sftball mom wrote on Jun 23, 2009 10:45 AM:

" I think there is a lesson to be learned from this tragedy and that is to all you women out there who are so desperate to find a man that you will bring home any thing you can find on the internet. THIS IS WHAT CAN HAPPEN!! A woman should never endanger her children like this. A hard lesson learned for Amy who will have to live the rest of her life knowing that she is also to blame for bringing this monster in her house. I think the man should rot in prison for what he done to that baby, not calling 911 as soon as he realized Holden was hurt, I think he did it on purpose and then tried covering it up. "

amomoftwo wrote on Jun 23, 2009 10:48 AM:

" As a PERSONAL friend of the family, please try to keep your comments positive about Holden and Amy. You have no idea how it affects this family. Imagine if it were YOUR grandchild or YOUR nephew.

Also, try to remember how the press is going to hound and inflame this situation. They are already trying to track down grandparents, etc. at their place of work! How insensitive!

I hope they throw the death penalty at this loser. I personally have held Holden in my arms many times and he was precious.

When Holden is resurrected to life on this earth in perfect health, he will have NO MEMORY of this. I can't wait to see him! "

Beaches wrote on Jun 23, 2009 11:21 AM:

" I agree that this is a tragedy and I pray for Holden and his family. The only hope is that people will learn from the decisions that led to this. The only person to blame is the man who killed this innocent child, but perhaps there were decisions made along the way that can help others not do the same in the future. "

midnt74 wrote on Jun 23, 2009 11:27 AM:

" First I would like to say to the family I'm sorry for your loss.

I don't feel the mom Amy should be attacked. She obviously trusted this man or she would NOT of left her son with him. Even if she only knew him a short time. How many people have died/raped from a friend/family member who you have known for 5-5o years? So the one here to blame is Jamie.. After all he is 29,and an adult. My children have been played with in the same manner ( if that was what he was really doing, and I seriously doubt that)BUT there is a time when your playing and having a good time, and there is a time when your just trying to hurt someone. If he seen the lil boy was hurting or at all disoriented and unresponsive he should of called 911 ASAP!!! He knew something was wrong and it was his fault or he wouldn't of tried to revive him in the shower... A life was lost so therefore Jamie should suffer too.. "

Harry Potter wrote on Jun 23, 2009 11:50 AM:

" " As a PERSONAL friend of the family, please try to keep your comments positive....

Good point!

Perhaps in the future you will think of the family members of the union workers that you so freely call names and post negative comments about. "

Jim1969 wrote on Jun 23, 2009 12:24 PM:

" Just because this guy was a boyfriend and not the father and/or husband is actually irrelevant. Too many children die every year at the hands of their parents through direct acts or through stupidity on the part of the parent.

We are not talking about a 10 year old who got carried away playing. We are talking about a 29 year old adult. He should have known better and he should have taken steps to really care for the child the second he realized the kid was hurt.

If he gets life in prison I hope it is in the general population. People who commit crimes against kids are the scum of the scum in jail and the other inmates will see to it that he is duly punished. "

61943 wrote on Jun 23, 2009 12:55 PM:

" My prayers and thoughts go out to my cousin and my family right now. Holden was a very sweet boy with the cutest smile.
He basically watched Holden die. He knew from the moment he hit his head there was something seriously wrong. he let him die. He is a monster and deserves what's going to happen and it is easy to prove first degree murder in this case.
Amy had no part in it so to say she should be held accountable is obsorded. Why would she had ever assumed he could so something like this. the only thing he has on his record is traffic violation. yeah that would honestly tell me he was going to kill my kid.
The person that matters right now is Holden. His life was taken from him in the most violent way possible.
sftball mom: you seem to have a personaly problem with Amy. Right now is the time to make sure this man gets what he deserves and for Holden to rest at peace. Trying to degard his mother has nothing to do with this.
Rest In Peace Holden And may you be with the angels.
To my family I am sorry for this loss. I love you all very deeply. My thoughts and prayers are with Jason and his family as well. "

Billie Brant wrote on Jun 23, 2009 1:31 PM:

" You know it's very lame for those who are already blaming this little guy's mom for her "so called part" in this by "judger's" on this thread. Just how much do any of you know about it?

The very LEAST you could is wait until all the facts come out before you start pointing your "blame fingers" at anyone EXCEPT the monster who did this monstrous deed.

Maybe this guy had shown NOTHING to ANYONE he could be capable of something as horrible as what he did to that little boy. The point is none of us who weren't involved know, so why add insult to injury to this grieving family?

This little boy's mom, dad and the rest of his family are dealing with broken hearts right now. They sure don't need the kind of negative crap being flung with reckless abandonment by some.

Have some sensitivity folks. Please. "

hunter wrote on Jun 23, 2009 1:31 PM:

" ♥Rest in Peace♥ Holden A. Jones♥ "

Rohn Gordon wrote on Jun 23, 2009 1:37 PM:

" sftball mom stay out of the sun it is frying your brain. You could be married for years and this type of thing happen. How many stories do we hear of like this?? Bunches, wasn't the guy in Sullivan that is charged for basically the same thing the child's father?? Yes he was. This story says they have been together, "Thomasson lives in Springfield but is dating the boys mother, Amy Bennett, and sometimes spent about a week at a time living with her and the boy". So it is not like she met and drug him home one night to baby set.
To anyone that thinks the police do not lie and make stories up you are wrong, they do. The courts do plea bargaining to save time and money. Also they can not loose a plea bargain. I think first degree murder should mean killed on purpose, and do not believe any sane person would kill the child. So mental issues aside I would venture a guess of drugs, alcohol, anger or a combination of them caused this tragedy. I think this is involuntary manslaughter until when he knew there was problems and did not seek help then it became voluntary manslaughter. "

mickeygarlock wrote on Jun 23, 2009 2:35 PM:

" Two things need to be said here;

Sympathy for the family of the toddler.

Death penalty for the man who did it. "

Lilly wrote on Jun 23, 2009 2:53 PM:

" robin8002,

I will guarantee that you will be appalled when this case comes to conclusion. Also, maybe I was taking the picture wrong, but I was assuming that the Detective in the photo was the "Lead Detective". Holy Cow! We can only hope justice will be served for this baby. Said it once, and will say it again, Incompetence! "

amomoftwo wrote on Jun 23, 2009 3:14 PM:

" Billie, I thank you for your comments on behalf of Holden's family.

This man did NOT show any negative traits to our family. In fact, he was kind, gentle and loving towards both of Amy's children, at least in her presence.

It not the place of people here who know nothing about anything to cast stones. Amy was a wonderful mother trying her hardest to take care of her children. Unless this has personally happened to YOU, you have no business saying anything about it.

There is a fund being set up to help defray funeral costs. When I find out where it is I'll post it here. "

5cooks wrote on Jun 23, 2009 3:26 PM:

" To Holden's family, so sorry for your loss.

What has happened to this little boy and his family is a tragedy. There is no other way to look at it or explain it. To the people on here who feel the need to judge, mainly, SFTBALL MOM, it must be grand to live such a perfect life. Do you not think this mother feels horrible? Do you really think your heartless comments need to be pointed out to her at this time in her life. I guess i wouldn't know what the world must look like from up on your high throne, but i do know that compassion is a wonderful thing, and something all of Holdens family needs right now. Certainly your scolding, condescending, attitude is of no importance.
We are lucky to live in a place where we can share our opinions freely, and you have just as much a right to voice yours as anyone i guess. But you could use a good lesson in tact and respect, since it appears you have no knowledge of either. There is a time and a place for everything, and i feel, as well as several others on this thread, that your comments are sadly mis-directed. "

pj1983 wrote on Jun 23, 2009 3:35 PM:

" i think you're being a little harsh, sftball mom. tossing around phrases like "strange men", "all you women out there who are so desperate to find a man that you will bring home any thing you can find on the internet". It sounds like you'd like to think you have inside information because nothing about those two accusations was stated in the paper. all anger should be pointed toward this "man" until all the facts are known. "

mickeygarlock wrote on Jun 23, 2009 3:52 PM:

" I would only say this, I went to 6 grades of school with Steve Ferguson, I have voted for him every time he has ran for office. IF, this man did all of this stuff in the order of what police say, then he deserves no less that Life in Prison with NO Parole. If he is found guilty or pleads Guilty, the penalty should be the same, with maybe one exception, if he is found guilty, Death Penalty. If he pleads Guilty, Life with no parole.
Of course Steve can only prosecute, it's up to the judge to sentence.

It's cases like these when you with for Komada back. "

Harry Potter wrote on Jun 23, 2009 4:34 PM:

" ....until all the facts are known. "

You hit it out of the park with that one, pj. All too often people on this site want to act as judge and jury, even before all the facts get out. Please don't consider this as defending the accused. "

7X6Z9 wrote on Jun 23, 2009 5:10 PM:

" I am simply amazed at the harsh and cruel incivility on the threads dealing with death and tragedy. The political and religious pages can get heated and insulting, but death seems to incite cruelty.
I suppose there is a rhyme and a reason to it, but still, the accusations fly against (possibly innocent) individuals who have scarcely had enough time to comprehend the loss, much less, bury their loved one's. Have we no decency left in our society? "

maddy101 wrote on Jun 23, 2009 6:07 PM:

" I have to say that I agree completely that this man should be held accountable for the death of this young boy and my sympathies go out to all of the family.... BUT.. as a single mother of 2 young boys also.... I would NEVER leave my children with someone that did not have child care experience. Boyfriend or not... if you havent been around children, you cannot properly care and make decisions to ensure their safety. If this young man was "choke slamming" this little boy then the young man obviously did not have the proper skills to care for this young boy. Even teen girls have a hard time finding sitter jobs these days unless they have taken "sitter" classes. "

Billie Brant wrote on Jun 23, 2009 7:28 PM:

" To amomoftwo- I had received a prayer request for the families of this little boy via my church's email. No details except the little guy had passed away. That was enough for me to include them in my prayers. To lose a child, any child has to be the most difficult form of death to deal with. To have something like this happen, I can't begin to imagine the depths of grief and despair they must be going through.Losing any loved one is difficult, but this? I can't put myself in their shoes and say I know how they feel because I've not been there.

I feel though that all these unfounded accusations aimed at this mom has to feel like knives in her already wounded heart. Please, give this family some support and let all of this insensitivity stop. "

kamfong wrote on Jun 23, 2009 8:15 PM:

" "I went to 6 grades of school with Steve Ferguson". Whoop-de-do,what's that got to do with the price of rice? There was a senseless killing of a child here and nothings going to bring the baby boy back. I find it very sad that there are people out there that would do this.My thoughts are with the family's that have to indure this pain. "

devilishangel61401 wrote on Jun 23, 2009 8:24 PM:

" My heart goes out to this child's family. I hope this guy gets life in prision with no parole or even the death penelty! The second the child fell from the bed shaking and stiff the person whose care he was in should have called 911 and gotten this child immdieate attention. As to the blame on the mom, it is not needed and she is already hurting enough, there is no way of knowing who will be a good person to sit with your child, people can pass a dcfs background check if they've never been arrested for or had a dcfs case for; child abuse, child sexual abuse, or child neglect. I know this because I used to get respite for my special needs son and I made every sitter I had get a dcfs background check and the dcfs department told me that "our background check only helps if the person has a record with us or the police. If they've never been caught."

When I was 7 years old one of my dad's freinds used to babysit us the guy was nice enough, was great with kids, volunteerd at youth centers worked for the YMCA as a lifeguard, had no criminal record so my parents and other parents trusted him. This man sexually molested myself, and two other 8 year old girls in the neighborhood and for the record he had watched myself my brother and these other girls for 2 years before he ever abused us!! There is just no way to know how someone will treat your child so for anyone to blame this poor grieving mother is irrational and unesscary. As for those who "think mom should know better" let me ask you this; how is a mom to know better? Background checks either through dcfs or the police department only give so much information, the person's juvinille records are screened in those checks and you are not "endagering" your child when you leave them in the care of an adult whom you trust. In today's world few of us have the luxury of being a "stay at home parent" those of us who are single parents have an even harder time since often times we don't have a spouse/partner to depend on , someone to say to" you work day shift and I'll work nights so we never have to leave our child with a sitter." There is only one person responsible for this child's tragic death; the man who killed him. We need to find ways to help the family and the community heal from this loss. We should only point the fingers at the guilty party, no one else. Rest in Peace Holden. You are loved and missed "

gogobee wrote on Jun 23, 2009 11:19 PM:

" My condolences to Holden's family. I have faith that justice will be served. And for the bashing to the SA office and Charleston Police Department.... blah blah blah. It seems that LILLY has been in direct contact with them both. It seems that you have a personal grudge against these two fine public servants. I trust that Ferguson and crew will bring home another victory. "

61912 wrote on Jun 23, 2009 11:20 PM:

" my thoughts and prayers to all who were touched by baby Holden. may you all find peace in time. "

jrhendren wrote on Jun 23, 2009 11:41 PM:

" Lilly you are one sad person. I would venture to guess you think they should sue the wrestling organizations for the crime. Maybe that will be their defense. Whether it was done on purpose or not, he admitted to not calling for help, that is child endangerment there. "Thomasson told police he realized the boy was hurt and put him in bed, and said Holden later fell out of bed and was stiff and shaking. Thomasson said he shook the boy to try to revive him, and several hours later put the boy in a shower to try to wake him". Notice the "several hours later". That shows pure negligence on his part. Now I realize you either are a friend/relative of the accused, or have had bad run ins with the States Attorney yourself, but his own statement works against him. He has to show that his statements were taken wrong, because he gave the prosecution the best evidence they could get. "

Karmatic Lawyer wrote on Jun 24, 2009 5:58 AM:

" I would like to say that I do not know Holden's family at all. But I feel such overwhelming sympathy for them! I cannot imagine, with the slightest inkling, what they must be going through. They are in my thoughts and prayers in this hard time. May Holden rest in peace, and may God bless his family.

I would also like to say that this is neither the time nor the place to be posting comments that cause extended grief to the family. Certain opinions should be kept to yourself. The focus of this forum is for words of support for the family through this hard time, not on you or your opinions. The perpetrator of this crime will get what he deserves.

Again, God bless the family. Rest in Peace baby Holden. "

Lilly wrote on Jun 24, 2009 7:01 AM:

" It seems that you have a personal grudge against these two fine public servants? Such as voting him in and him not doing his job?

I trust that Ferguson and crew will bring home another victory? Just like the victory in the sleep walker case?

Whether it was done on purpose or not, he admitted to not calling for help, that is child endangerment there? Child endangerment is a far cry from 1st degree murder. You can sit and try to discredit what i say, but in the end we will all be dissappointed. It is very sad about the life loss of the young boy, but if it were my child, i would want it handled by people that are much more professional in their capacity. Quit wasting our time and tax dollars on offenses they will not be able to prove. "

peaceman wrote on Jun 24, 2009 7:13 AM:

" Sad ending to a litte boy's life.
My heart goes out to all the family and friends. I do have to agree with Lily in that you can not believe everything the detectives and SA say & do. They get by with putting words in victims mouth and making them tell the incidents the way they want to hear them. Then they conveniently leave out parts of the details. Seen and heard it too many times. "

just watching wrote on Jun 24, 2009 8:00 AM:

" Deviishangel, That was a very moving post,thanks for sharing.Unfortunatly the world is full of creeps like you encountered.Did the moletser in your case get arrested? If he's still alive and lives in this area you should consider making his name public so others wont be harmed. If the current SA would quit treating child molesters and abusers with kid gloves and probation,there might less of a desire to commit those horrible acts. "

Harry Potter wrote on Jun 24, 2009 9:35 AM:

" The focus of this forum is for words of support for the family through this hard time, not on you or your opinions.

Not really, according to the rules set forth by the host, the purpose is to:

JG-TC.com encourages readers to engage in civil conversation with their neighbors.

Civil conversation can be very subjective. "

jenthemama wrote on Jun 24, 2009 10:53 AM:

" IT DOESN'T MATTER WHAT THE FACTS ARE! This PERSON had been ENTRUSTED with the CARE and WELL BEING of a CHILD and he FAILED! Not only did he FAIL-HE was the CAUSE of this child's death! Nothing else matters! "

pj1983 wrote on Jun 24, 2009 11:08 AM:

" you'e absolutely right, just watching. you should use a public forum to accuse someone of crimes that were never brought to the public's attention! you can't just run around accusing people of being sex offenders! "

Billie Brant wrote on Jun 24, 2009 1:50 PM:

" Harry, I'm afraid your post( 9:35 AM ) will fall on deaf ears or it will be misunderstood. "

Texas T wrote on Jun 24, 2009 2:05 PM:

" Karmatic Lawyer wrote on Jun 24, 2009 5:58 AM: The focus of this forum is for words of support for the family through this hard time, not on you or your opinions.

This thread is not the obituary guest book. That is specifically there to post comforting words to the family of the deceased. This thread is to comment of the story written above. Thoughts, opinions, arguements, etc. This is a very tragic story that brings out alot of fear, emotion and outrage and we all have the right to express that fear and emotion and outrage. So there!!!

And let's not forget that Ted Bundy looked like the guy next door.

Everyone makes mistakes. Some just happen to have the worst kind of consequences. This poor girl is going to live the rest of her life regretting that choice she made. We all want to trust the special people in our lives and he was obviously special to her since he stayed with her often. This is a very tragic story and my thoughts and prayers go out to this family. And I will pray that everyone posting here will never make a choice that has such dire consequences. Even if that choice is as simple as turning left instead of right in a strange city...You just never know what lies around the corner. "

bj7997 wrote on Jun 24, 2009 2:06 PM:

" First I would like to send my deepest symphathy to Holden (r.i.p.) & his family.
& for everyone out there saying things about the mother is apalling. How do any of us know when something is going to happen, especially something like this.
I know the accussed personally. I can also assure you that he is not the monster you all believe him to be. He happens to be great with kids. I have 2 kids of my own and couldn't imagine anything ever happening to either one of them. I remember when my daughter was a baby & was constently crying and we all took turns pacing the floor with her, even Jamie. My son (also 2 yrs) loves Jamie. Jamie is one of the only men he doesn't shy away from. Jamie has always been great with my kids. But I do know that Jamie loves kids and would never intentionally hurt any kid!!! I do believe that he should be held accountable for not calling 911 or the mother when he noticed something wasn't right. But that is something I know he will hold on to and regret the rest of his life. We all do things we regret later and wish we could change and take back. This will be something that Jamie, I know, wishes he could change and take back.
I know some of you think he should get the death penalty but you should relize he's not a murderer! He never meant for something like this to happen, as would neither of us if we were in his shoes.
I do believe he will do his time for what has happened but putting him to death doesn't bring back the precious Holden.
The only crime I see that has happened is someones stupidity of not calling someone when something wasn't right. When was the last time any of you were put to death for an accident? Accidents happen everyday. This is a very tragic accident, but that is what is was.
All the facts are not present at this time and as things are brought out more into the open more of you will relize what this is... an accident no one can redo or take back!!!! "

concernedparent wrote on Jun 24, 2009 5:53 PM:

" bj7997 - How can you say this was an accident? The original incident "may" have been an accident BUT.... Any human being does not accidentally put a toddler to bed that has had an accident so severe that his collarbone is broken and that is not even taking into account the head injury. Then they do not accidentally pick up a child who has fallen out of bed and is stiff and shaking and shake them and put them into a shower to wake them and return them to bed and go to sleep. NOTHING past the first "VERY STUPID" incident of "plyaing roughly" could possibly be seen as an accident by any normal human being. Ok I am going to stop now because I can no longer think of this stupidity and be any where close to nice. "

kamfong wrote on Jun 24, 2009 6:01 PM:

" bj997 wrote, "I know the accussed personally.I can assure you he is not a monster." These comments have a striking resemblence to the recent baby girl murder case in Sullivan,where all the folks defending that accused baby killer wanted him released on bond, so he could go home to his family "just so he could be close and get hugged." count your lucky stars jamie whats his face didn't body slam your 2yr old baby,playing world wrestler. I don't care who you are,you don't play choke slam, a defensless 2 yr old child. "

karmatic lawyer wrote on Jun 24, 2009 6:01 PM:

" Texas T...you are absolutely right, this thread is not the obituary guest book...but logging accusations that the mother should be held accountable is heartless and cruel and has no place here. "

Harry Potter wrote on Jun 24, 2009 6:08 PM:

" Harry, I'm afraid your post( 9:35 AM ) will fall on deaf ears or it will be misunderstood. "

Thanks Billie, I'm getting used to it. lol! "

Rockin Rotty wrote on Jun 24, 2009 8:02 PM:

" As a side note, it wouldn't hurt none for some of the posters here, especially the newbs, to go read a few of the other threads, of "Mike P's posts", about a generalization of how well the local rag does with their reporting.

A good read of Harry Potter's posts, & understanding them correctly, wouldn't hurt none, either. "

Interested Observer wrote on Jun 24, 2009 11:18 PM:

" I can't believe Liily's comments. Has she considered that virtually NONE of the scientific tests on the evidence have been completed, the autopsy results are PRELIMINARY, etc., etc., etc.? Would you rather Mr. Ferguson file some half-baked, scatter-gun case that he may or may NOT be able to prove, or wait for the e-v-i-d-e-n-c-e to come in, and file a case that stands up in court? I know which one I prefer... "

jrhendren wrote on Jun 25, 2009 12:22 AM:

" Lilly wrote on Jun 24, 2009 7:01 AM:
" It seems that you have a personal grudge against these two fine public servants? Such as voting him in and him not doing his job?

I trust that Ferguson and crew will bring home another victory? Just like the victory in the sleep walker case?

Whether it was done on purpose or not, he admitted to not calling for help, that is child endangerment there? Child endangerment is a far cry from 1st degree murder. You can sit and try to discredit what i say, but in the end we will all be dissappointed. It is very sad about the life loss of the young boy, but if it were my child, i would want it handled by people that are much more professional in their capacity. Quit wasting our time and tax dollars on offenses they will not be able to prove. "

They have the evidence, by his own admission. Saying they should automatically go for a lesser charge. If you knew anything about law at all, you would realize that you go for the max, so you can at least get the lesser. By going with the max. they have room to maneuver. Also like I said you have his own statements that work against him. This child died do not negligence. Everyone knows you don't put a child to bed with a head injury. It is 1st degree when you know your actions may harm the other individual. I will only be disappointed if he is found guilty by his peers and does not do time. If he is found innocent then he should not have this held against him. I personally believe you will see either a guilty plea, or no contest plea for a lighter sentence. "

ak927 wrote on Jun 25, 2009 9:04 AM:

" Lilly, let me make sure that I understand this: So your saying it was all right for this individual to willing know the child was hurt and to place him in his bed-not seek medical attention, then to find him stiff and shaking place him in the shower to try and arouse him, but still not seek medical attention, and then on top of that place this child back in his bed and then you go back to sleep that is a little more than child endangerment, a little more than negligence. You have to take in consideration what this poor child endeared during this period of time. Taking all of that into consideration. It may not be pre-meditated murder but it is murder when he willing and knowing do not seek medical attention from the get go. My heart breaks for this poor little boy if nothing else he is intitled to the maximum justice that can be given to this individual. "

Harry Potter wrote on Jun 25, 2009 11:02 AM:

" Here's a novel idea. Let's let the court system decide on the fate of the accused. "

Becky wrote on Jun 25, 2009 11:08 AM:

" I think it's time to bring back the PSAs about shaken baby syndrome. We seem to be having a rash of it lately and the public needs to be reminded about never shaking a baby.

All of the nice and loving comments about Holden are wonderful. Our deepest sympathies go out to his family. We are so sorry for your loss. "

devilishangel61401 wrote on Jun 25, 2009 11:15 AM:

" Thank you Just Watching, I did not live in this area until 7 years ago, when I moved to Mattoon to be near my son who is in a Graywood Foundation group home. The man did get arrested went to prison for 6 years. I never saw him after that and the last I knew he had committed suicide after being released from prison.

I don't see how anyone can think what this man has admitted to doing to Holden as "an accident" The only part I can see as accidental is hitting the boys head while playing with him, to let this child fall out of bed stiff and shaking and then putting the child back to bed then in the shower never calling for medical help at all nothing about any of that is "accidental" It is up to the state's attorney to decide what charges this man will face; first degree murder, second degree murder, child endagerment, child abuse or child neglect or a combination of charges. I hope that for the family's sake that justice is served for baby Holden. "

gbushway wrote on Jun 25, 2009 12:33 PM:

" Amy,
I am so sorry for your loss. Words cannot express how much my heart goes out to you. Don't listen to the awful people who try to blame you and don't blame yourself either because you could not have known.
Please let us know if there is anything we can do.
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Ozzie's Mom - Ginger "

Lilly wrote on Jun 25, 2009 2:27 PM:

" Not once did I defend the actions of the accused. What I said was that all they will do is reduce any and all charges, wrap it up into a nice plea deal, and the suspect will get less than an 8 yr sentence.

" If you knew anything about law at all, you would realize that you go for the max, so you can at least get the lesser. By going with the max. they have room to maneuver."

People should only be charged for the crime in which the State can prove its case. This ritual of overcharging people just to scare them into the plea, (of a lesser charge), is simply BS. Not to mention that with the heavier crimes comes the heavier bail bonds. The revenuer that our SA is, this practice doesn't suprise me. Lets just throw all kinds of charges on the accused, and see what sticks? How much money can we get from this one?

8 years tops! Manslaughter! "

mybaby boy wrote on Jun 25, 2009 5:17 PM:

" My baby boy was just murdered when I was working. I trusted the man who was watching my children. I would like to spit on those who find me responsible. Why would I do that to my kids? Ever met someone and trusted them after time. Well I think some of you should keep your mouth shut. I pray for those who run there mouth with no clue. Keep your mouth shut until you know the truth. Your just being an ignorant and you know who you are. Maybe you should lose your kids for being a heartless @$#&*. And then I want to think those for your kind words at such a horrible time in my life. My kids mean the world to me. I would never ever leave them in a situation that would cause them harm. I am a good mom and a good person. You would know that if you met me. Please stop accusations and send prayers instead. "

just watching wrote on Jun 25, 2009 5:37 PM:

" Hey Lilly, Hows about not breaking ANY laws to begin with.Criminals do dirty underhanded deals all the time, so why be-atch about the tactics authorities use to get scum off the streets? The accused are usually guilty of something,and more than likely around here have already gotton away with way more than they got charged with.I do however agree the CC SA office could use a little re-organizing,but who in their right mind would want the drama? "

Cradinals81 wrote on Jun 25, 2009 5:54 PM:

" I am very close to Amy, Holden and Drew. I have known Amy for a few years and I know that Amy is a wonderful mother. She has done and will continue to do everything that she can for her children. She would never intend to put her children in harms way. We all as humans make mistakes and it is one mistake that Amy will regret for the rest of her life but it doesnt make her responsable for the death of her son. Jamie also made a very horrible mistake and it will be one that he will live with the rest of his life. He will prosecuted for Holdens death regardless if it was an accident or not. He could have called someone or 911 and he chose to not do so. He will live with that forever. For everyone (softball mom) that is being extremingly outspoken, I am not sure how you live with yourself. You must be so unhappy with yourself and your life that you have to bash a mother and a family that is having to deal with this horrible tragity. I want to think all that are being very supportive. The whole family greatly appricates it. I ask that we all contiue praying for the family. And if you have nothing nice to say than say nothing at all. "

Cradinals81 wrote on Jun 25, 2009 6:30 PM:

" I would also like to set the record straight. Most of what is being said is incorrect. This situation is tragic enough, people have to take the truth and stretch it to the extreme. Most of what is being said is not even true. Its tragic enough you have to make it sound even worse when it is bad enough the way it is. People like you make me sick. People need to stop running their mouths. Most of us can not even begin to understand what the family is going through. So before you think about saying anything, put yourself in the families shoes and try to imagine what they are going through. We will all miss Holden and the joy that he brought into our lives. Amy and Jason my thoughts and praying are with you and we will never forget the wonderful smiles from his precious face. "

devilishangel61401 wrote on Jun 25, 2009 6:34 PM:

" Mybabyboy my heart and prayers go out to you and your family. I am so very truly sorry for your loss and I am even more sorry that you have to listen to people say such negative things about you, you do not deserve that on any level. As a mom my heart is just breaking for you, I cannot begin to imagine the incredable pain you are dealing with. I will keep you and your family in my prayers. "

mickeygarlock wrote on Jun 25, 2009 7:35 PM:

" mybaby boy

First off, my deepest condolances to you and your family. I just read a story in People Magazine, it is a truely tragic story and truely amazing at the same time. Here is the website, you really need to read the story, and then contact Terry. I don't think he'll mind.

http://terrycaffey.com/?page_id=13

Read it and you'll understand completely. E-Mail him or call him, I don't think he'll mind. "

ItsTimeTruth Speaks wrote on Jun 25, 2009 7:44 PM:

" Let us remember as we seek, even demand justice in this horrible and tragic case that the more we post comments of the sort printed here, the greater the possibility of this case being tried elsewhere! Let's keep Holden's case at home. Please stop the heinous comments. "

freedom2speak wrote on Jun 25, 2009 7:48 PM:

" Amy, Im soo sorry for your loss..I too trusted a man with my children and in the end he broke that trust. We do everything we can to protect ourselves including running background checks on men that we single women date..as one of you pointed out we DONT just throw ourselves at every man that walks by. We are currently in proceedings in court and it is taking forever to get my daughter justice. I hope that your situation is over quick so that you and your family can move forward with your healing..Please find strength in the Lord..You are in my families prayers.. God Bless "

Rohn Gordon wrote on Jun 25, 2009 8:19 PM:

" My Baby first I do not think you are Amy, if you are I am sorry for your loss.
I have no idea how any person who just lost a child like Amy did could right a blog and include this> " Maybe you should lose your kids for being a heartless @$#&*. " For that reason alone I do not think you are Amy. Another thing I think Amy would have signed her own name not a made up one. "

Lilly wrote on Jun 25, 2009 8:29 PM:

" Just watching,

so why be-atch about the tactics authorities use to get scum off the streets? The accused are usually guilty of something,and more than likely around here have already gotton away with way more than they got charged with.?

That is an unacceptable reply.
Perhaps you need to take a Constitution class. "

kamfong wrote on Jun 25, 2009 8:48 PM:

" Truth Speaks,Not to worry Coles County doesn't have trials.That requires competence, money,knowledge,a jury & sombody to walk down a couple flights of stairs,to my observation it's about all ole Steve can do to get up the stairs. It appears to be much easier and less intruding to just play"come on down" kinda like that game show. "

just watching wrote on Jun 25, 2009 9:13 PM:

" Lilly,perhaps you need to re-read my post,try not breaking the law then you don't have to worry about your rights,being violated. And perhaps you should check your math skills,how does the States Attorney's office profit on trumped up charges? The accused rarely can post 10% of any bond over $50.000,thus causing the tax payers to foot the lawyer bill,jailstay ect.I suppose if criminals would be as concerned for victims rights as much as their own,we might not be having this conversation.Pretty simple fact don't break the law or aid and abett those who do, and your constitutional rights wont be effected. "

mybaby boy wrote on Jun 25, 2009 9:25 PM:

" I am Amy Bennett, mother of the deceased child. I was told I was being accused of neglect towards my son. I am very upset at the woman who said hateful things to me. I am in a terrible state and to find things like that increases the situation. I dont feel like I should be judged. I am on here because I want to stand up for myself. I am in shock and currently holding up. Everyone grieves differently. I love my son and by no means do I feel I have lost him yet. I will eventually fall apart and then I will need your prayers. So please continue to do so through the following months. "

mickeygarlock wrote on Jun 25, 2009 10:08 PM:

" Rohn

Have you ever heard of shock?

Amy

I really hope you check out that website I posted. I'm sure it will help you much. "

Billie Brant wrote on Jun 25, 2009 11:26 PM:

" Amy, Try and pay no attention to the loser's on here who have nothing better to do than be negative.I know it's diffucult but try and concentrate on the ones who have shown sympathy to you and all of your little guy's family.

And Rohn, just what makes you think a grieving mother wouldn't post here after reading some of this swill? She probably can't close her eyes without seeing her son's little face! Sleep? She may not be able to sleep for awhile except from pure exhaustion. Also she's hurting and she's probably angry! Angry that her beautiful little boy is gone!

I didn't sleep for thirty-six hours after my husband was killed in a wreck. Then I didn't sleep well for several weeks. Going without sleep affects the body and the mind and you find yourself trying ANYTHING to help dull the pain. I found myself in this position also fifteen years ago when my only sibling my sis was killed by a train. So Amy is posting. So what!

As to your tastless post Rohn to "mybabyboy" and that she couldn't be Amy because of one of the statements she made, Bull! As mickeygarlock said "shock" is a good explantion as to her remarks. It hasn't bothered some of these hateful posters on here to point their accusatory fingers at her and label her a bad mother when they don't know anything about her. Why shouldn't she post? Why shouldn't she defend herself! Writing down your feelings are a good form of therapy.

As far as grieving goes, we all do it in our own way and our own time. There aren't any rules as to how or how long.If she feels posting helps her, who are you Rohn to decide if it's the "right thing" to do?
Your qualification " if you are I'm sorry for your loss" sucks!

Amy, surround yourself with those that love you. Lean on them. Some folks don't know what to say, but they mean well. Sometimes they even don't want to bring up a loved one's name for fear it will upset you. When this happened to me I would just say "He/She was here. He/She was! He/She is"!Sometimes it's up to US to put friends at ease when dealing with a loss by letting them know it's okay to talk about them.

Losing a loved one is never easy Amy, but when it's a traumatic loss such as yours, it's much harder.It's as if a giant claw has reached in and snatched them away. Remember that little fella as a gift. Even though he wasn't here long, he was still a precious gift to be treasured always. God Bless you Amy. "

61943 wrote on Jun 25, 2009 11:26 PM:

" how about we lay off my cousin. and focus our attention to where it should be and that's the monster in jail. you dont know what she is going through. just leave her alone. unless you've seen her being arrested i would say she had no idea. i fell bad for both parents in this situation. why are you trying to slam Amy down. where are you even getting your facts. comment on the man beyond bars. and leave my cousin out of it. "

jrhendren wrote on Jun 25, 2009 11:59 PM:

" Lilly wrote on Jun 25, 2009 2:27 PM:
" Not once did I defend the actions of the accused."

You said, " Justice for that little boy begins with an unbiased investigation. Not with the detective whispering in the coroners ear?". I'm sure others would agree that sounds like a defense for him to me. When you say that it is a bias investigation.
________________________________________

What I said was that all they will do is reduce any and all charges, wrap it up into a nice plea deal, and the suspect will get less than an 8 yr sentence.

Then you said, the investigation was bias. Meaning they had a suspect and that's all they needed.
________________________________________

" If you knew anything about law at all, you would realize that you go for the max, so you can at least get the lesser. By going with the max. they have room to maneuver."

People should only be charged for the crime in which the State can prove its case.

They will try to do just that. They have his own statements. They are not charging him with anything other then the crime.
________________________________________

This ritual of overcharging people just to scare them into the plea, (of a lesser charge), is simply BS. Not to mention that with the heavier crimes comes the heavier bail bonds. The revenuer that our SA is, this practice doesn't suprise me. Lets just throw all kinds of charges on the accused, and see what sticks? How much money can we get from this one?

Again he is being charged with the right charges if he did as he said he did. They have not added charges. Their are charges they could add on, but have not. You obviously have some beef with the State's Attorney. Maybe your man Todd losing was a bitter pill. Maybe he busted you for a crime and you are still sore over that. You only know.

8 years tops! Manslaughter! "

Possibly, but since their has not even been a plea who knows. "

jrhendren wrote on Jun 26, 2009 12:01 AM:

" Our prayer to the family. Remember that though for a short time God let you know an angel personally. "

medic57 wrote on Jun 26, 2009 11:10 AM:

" In my opinion, in cases like these, there should be no plea bargain unless it includes life with no parole. "

Rohn Gordon wrote on Jun 26, 2009 3:26 PM:

" Billie that is a crock. Read my first and second posts> Rohn Gordon wrote on Jun 23, 2009 9:23 AM:, Rohn Gordon wrote on Jun 23, 2009 1:37 PM:. You know damn well I never said anything bad about the mother, just the opposite.
And because I do not believe that mybaby boy is not Amy means nothing bad toward her at all. The shock excuses do not work. Using that excuse, you can say you would tell some other lady she should loose her husband??. I know I sure would not have when I lost my mother. Nope don't think so do not buy it. I do not believe any woman that just lost a child could ever tell someone else they should loose theirs.
You people reading bad into anything someones says is pitiful, I would also bet that I am not the only one in here that thinks this was not Amy, but I am probably the only one with guts enough to speak up. "

Billie Brant wrote on Jun 26, 2009 4:16 PM:

" Have it your way Rohn. I happen to believe "mybabyboy" is Amy. I know full well folks blurt out all kinds of things when they're under stress they wouldn't ordinarily say. When asked about it later, they can't remember saying it. I know I have.

Yeah, "mybabyboy's" remark about loosing kids may have been a little out of line,but I'm still going to chalk it up to someone being in extreme pain. She'll be able to see those words in print and just maybe she'll wish she hadn't written them. I don't know. I can't see into her mind.

How many times have many of us said and yes posted things we wish we hadn't? How many hurtful words have "we" used? It seems to me that Amy has had her share of arrows aimed at her on here. It doesn't seem "out there" to me that she would try and defend herself! Actually, by doing so, it shows me that she's a strong lady and will survive this horrible event in her life. She may have scars, but she will heal.

That being said, I think she needs to be cut a little slack here. She just buried her little boy who was snatched away from her.

So go to bed and sleep well tonight Rohn knowing you have "guts". "

nana1 wrote on Jun 26, 2009 7:41 PM:

" Our prayers go out to debbie,jason and family, and to my baby boy why are you on here? You just buried your baby yesturday! If it was me I would be with my family mourning my baby, not on the net searching for another man, havent you learned by now!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! "

mybaby boy wrote on Jun 26, 2009 7:55 PM:

" I think I know who I am. And I am Amy. I condeming the woman who is accusing me. She is being extreme. I think I even know who it is. Its someone who themself needs help. I have free will to write what I want. I am upset that some woman could say such hateful things about me. I never met a man off the net and had him watch my children. I had none him well and trusted him. My daughter of ten loved him to death. She is shocked that he could do this her brother. But to you hateful people shut up. just think the person you know for ten years could have done the same thing. People dont understand that. They need to stop and think about the times they have done dumb things. Mine caused death but if I didnt trust the man I would have never left my kids with him. and to Nana1, i am reading these horrible postings and checking for prayers not looking for a man. I need to see who cares and its keeping my mind occupied at this time. "

mybaby boy wrote on Jun 26, 2009 8:11 PM:

" nana1 you dont have any idea what you are taking about. Jason has filled your head with lies. Like he always has. I am not looking for men but reading prayers. Find God "

mickeygarlock wrote on Jun 26, 2009 9:35 PM:

" nana1

Of all of the things I have ever seen posted, that is the cruelest remark I have ever seen. Just plain downright mean. I'm sure you have many friends. Why doesn't Amy belong on the internet? Maybe it's a form of therapy. If that's the case, you could use a good dose. "

Drewsnanagrandma wrote on Jun 26, 2009 10:06 PM:

" I am so upset by some of the postings on this. My family has known Amy and her family since Drew was 6 months old. I am not a blood relative but feel very much a part of their family. For you people who feel you must make accusations toward Amy, please stop! We have all made mistakes in our lives. As in John 8:7 (New International Version) states: "If any one of you is without sin, let him be the first to throw a stone at her."
I know I am not without sin but I also know God forgives us of our sins. Amy has every right to mourn as she chooses. If getting on the internet helps her in this, let her be!
Now for the people who have said encouraging words, THANK YOU!
Amy for you all I can say is stay strong and know you have so many that truly care about you and family. "

Rockin Rotty wrote on Jun 26, 2009 10:35 PM:

" Billie Brant wrote on Jun 26, 2009 4:16 PM:

"I happen to believe "mybabyboy" is Amy. I know full well folks blurt out all kinds of things when they're under stress they wouldn't ordinarily say. When asked about it later, they can't remember saying it. I know I have."

.......

My feelings as well - I know I sure have, also. "

jthom wrote on Jun 26, 2009 11:04 PM:

" hey why not let me go "

Billie Brant wrote on Jun 27, 2009 7:30 AM:

" mickeygarlock wrote on Jun 26, 2009 9:35 PM:

" nana1

Of all of the things I have ever seen posted, that is the cruelest remark I have ever seen. Just plain downright mean.

You hit the nail on the head on this one mickey. As to your remarks about posting being therapy, right again.

I thank God I've never had to walk in the shoes of one who has lost a child or grandchild. All of us who never have need to be thankful and show some compassion for those that have. The daddy's family is hurting too and by no means have I forgotten that. They need prayers and support also. "

acd91 wrote on Jun 27, 2009 12:11 PM:

" Ok folks, this isn't about everyone's personal opinion. People are hurting right now. A child lost his innocent life!! In time,accounts of the night will unfold and remind the family of the horrible event. Holden is who we need to remember. I would think as a mother, father, or family member I would rather see condolences and people's fond memories of Holden on here rather than arguing and placing blame. This is hard enough for the family to accept. Have a heart. Stop the negative comments. REMEMBER HOLDEN. "

acd91 wrote on Jun 27, 2009 12:12 PM:

" jthom- what does your comment mean? I don't see any relevence in anything you said "hey why not let me go" "

61943 wrote on Jun 27, 2009 2:56 PM:

" is blaming his death on Amy going to bring him. do you honestly believe my cousin would let some random person watch her kids. no i dont think so. if people do watch him it's family except this one time. if she says she got to know him then i believe her. this is like a big game of who's side people are on. you are either about jason or amy. why cant you come to realize two people lost their child. stop blaming her. and she has every single right to get on and defend herself. i know i would. some of what people are saying is truly horrible. i'm sorry to say but you'll find out more of the truth when the trial comes. and it was a full out investagation. leave her alone. let holden rest in peace as well. "

Rockin Rotty wrote on Jun 28, 2009 12:23 PM:

" One thing to keep in mind when becoming a part of a comment venue or a forum is, you learn very quickly to take it all with a grain of salt.

I know, easier said than done.

The world out here can be like David meeting Goliath at times, but I'm willing to bet 90% of all the posters out there are really just big softies.

Remember, take in as much as you want, just take it all in with a grain of salt, at certain times. "

jrussell wrote on Jul 2, 2009 10:23 PM:

" he should be charged with murder, choke slamming a 2 year old...DUH DUH DUH "

misfit5 wrote on Jul 23, 2009 9:44 PM:

" To Amy and your family I am so sorry to hear of your lost. I also knew Jamie dated him for a few months and he was great with my kids. After sometime spent with him I to trusted him around my kids. He never once harmed my kids in anyway.They always had fun when he was around. He was a very family type person I meet his family and he was a good family guy and would do anything for u if he could always wantin to help when it was needed. Jamie loves kids and always wanted some of his own. I was not there when all this took place but let u know I was very surprise when I heard of it. As for all the people who blame the mom u are not in her shoes so get off of her and just be there and let God take control of it all. Again I am sorry this happen to you Amy and your family know that u are in my heart and prays. And Amy make peace with yourself u did not know any of this was going to happen, and you need to stay health and be there for the one u have, your daughter needs u more now then ever. Let the law and God take it from here. Wish for the best except the worst. May God be with all of you and your family... "

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Coles County State's Attorney Steve Ferguson addresses the media gathered Monday afternoon (June 22, 2009) for the Jamie Thomasson arrest announcement press conference at City Hall in Charleston. (Photo by Ken Trevarthan).