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Thursday, May 8, 2008 10:29 AM CDT
COLUMN: Now I know the 'secret' to losing weight, but you don't want to know



I owe a big “thank you” to Susie over at Curves in Mattoon, even though we’ve never met.

I’ve never even set foot inside the Curves facility, although I know plenty of people who do on a regular basis.

And Susie doesn’t even know how she’s motivated me and been part of a spark that prompted me to really commit to start working out and getting healthy.

I wrote in a column last fall that I’d like to improve my health and, to that end, eat better and lose weight. In response, Susie sent me a coupon for 30 days free at Curves, which is a workout program specifically for women.

Okay, I admit it hurt my feelings. I could have taken the gesture two ways: One, the way which I’m sure she meant it, as a move to help me out; or two, as an almost public way to point out that I was fat.

Well, I was fat — and I still am. It’s not that I didn’t know that. I’ve known that for years. I ate too many pizzas in college and didn’t exercise enough in the ensuing years and have carried a lot of extra weight around as a result.

I knew that. But it was different to have someone else seemingly point it out.

When I got that note from Susie, I had already been walking more to get fit, eating better and improving my lifestyle.

Suddenly I knew I needed more.

I’ve tried many, many times over the years to lose weight to be more healthy. I’ve lost 10 pounds, then gained it back gradually. I know how to lose weight. I just couldn’t seem to keep up the effort, struggling with long-term change just as many people do.

Then I realized that just walking almost every day and cutting back on sweets wasn’t going to do it. I had to change my entire lifestyle — change me into a better me.

No, not because I want to look — what is it the kids say these days? oh yeah — “hot.” Just the thought makes me laugh. I could never see myself that way.

I want to be more healthy and I want to be happy with the person I see in the mirror, both mentally and physically. I want to do this for me. I want to keep up with my nieces and nephews as they grow up.

So I began to mull it over.

I did consider Curves, and I know their program works for many people. I decided it was a little too structured for my taste; I’m pretty independent — I like to do my own thing. I thought about a 24-hour gym, but I settled on joining the Mattoon Area Family YMCA.

First of all, I like the Y’s philosophy: good old-fashioned values like respect, responsibility and caring. Second of all, they have lots of programs and different classes from which to choose. Third, I like that they have plenty of good stuff for kids.

And fourth, they have a pool. I just know when my nieces and nephews come to town I can maintain my “favorite aunt” status by taking them there.

I started at the Y on Nov. 23 and actually joined in December. I had been walking more and eating better already for at least a week or two. Then I used some Christmas money from my mom to purchase three sessions with a personal trainer, wanting to be sure I was getting the most from my workout.

When I began, I could walk a mile in about 30 minutes, but I couldn’t walk too fast or I’d get shin splints. The first time I got on the elliptical machine, 4 minutes just about did me in: My legs hurt and I could barely get my breath.

By the time you read this, I will have lost about 20 pounds. I can walk a mile in 18 minutes — not record-setting, certainly, but progress. I hit that elliptical machine for 5 minutes four different times as part of my workout.

I do my main workout three days a week, and it takes me about an hour and a half. I got a heart rate monitor, and that helps motivate me. My personal trainer from the Y has been great, encouraging me and teaching me lots of things to get a full-body workout using the equipment in the Y’s fitness center.

I have lost an inch or two almost everywhere: abdomen, hips, thighs, waist, etc. I started gaining inches in my biceps. I am down two pants sizes, and instead of 84 pounds away from my goal, I am 64 pounds from my goal, and it might be just my “first” goal weight. We’ll see.

My focus is not to look a certain way to try to get society’s approval rating. I just want to be healthy.

The secret to losing weight? It’s work — good old-fashioned w-o-r-k.

Oh, it’s not that I didn’t know that before. For whatever reason, I am motivated this time, and I am not going back. I am thinking positively. You’ll note a bit higher in this column that I said I “will” have lost 20 pounds by the time you read this; not “might” or “should,” but will.

I celebrate every pound lost. I have days when I don’t do well, but I don’t dwell on that. I think, “I’ll do better tomorrow.”

It is work. I am sweating it up and working off all this fat. It is up to me and no one else, and you can bet I’m going to take credit for the results of my hard work too.

Encouragement from family and friends helps keep me going; I’m not saying that I’m doing it all alone. But no one else can do it for me.

Three days a week, the workout is “nonnegotiable,” and it takes priority. Exercise on the other days also is a priority. Some days — and some weeks — I do better than others, but I’m not in a hurry; I want to do it right and do it permanently.

I like this change. For everyone else who struggles with being seriously overweight, I say, keep trying — just keep trying.

You will do it. Find what works for you and dig in.

Yup, it’s work — and you are worth it.


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Mama says wrote on May 8, 2008 2:37 AM:

" Ok so you wanna be known as peewee weaver and lose weight hey. hehe. I couldn't resist that one. Well, I lost 48.8 lbs and not sweating like an oldie either. I am disabled. So to lose these layers of cake, I had to just watch the calories, hospital bed exercises, as walking is limited. The 100 calorie soups, few cheezits, piece of fruit, does wonders and fills me up anymore. I eat a third of six inch subway, 10 chips, have ice water, and another piece of fruit. I like salad so forego chips for a salad often, then just have 3 inch of sandwich with that.

You need hangout with me Penny. If you come over my dog will make ya exercise.
He is such a ballplayer and enjoys lots of attention. I adopted a cat from shelter and she will do massage therapy on us. I have a talking parrot, oh man whatever do never cuss around a parrot.
As sure as minister visits, she will cut loose. Whewwwww.

Being on limited income, I couldn't afford the luxury places on losing weight and I didn't wanna go band surgery either. I have gone from size 5x to size 1x fits all,,,,,the 5x now can have myself, son, and 7 year old inside the lounge gown. That makes us all laugh. I do feel better. I can go up steps front of house, in/out car, go
a little farther with a shopping cart.

The good thing, learned to trim my own hair, and for a heavy lady trim toenails and my sis can't do that and she is 140 lbs. I am flexible, cause have laid in the hospital bed doing some good moves and my joints not lock up. Keep whatever you can moving.

The lady who offered me her husband should be careful who offering,,,,he is good looking and he does mow the lawn, paint house, roof it, vacumns house, takes trashout, and some woman be lucky to have him since she doesn't.

He might even show me some new exercises, hehehe.

Keep writing pweaver. I love ya.
I think you are hot and a pretty nice
gal all way around. I know you are a great aunt. Wondering what gonna write next. Your emailing friend, that's me. "

HeinekenMan wrote on May 8, 2008 6:24 AM:

" Penny, I know your battle. I've fought the same one my whole life. Last week, I went under 300 pounds for the first time in nine years. I'm approaching 60 pounds lost, and I don't intend to stop until I get to 175.

There's no secret. It's all about diet and exercise. Read lots of health and exercise. You'll learn some great stuff. For example, building muscle isn't just for men. It's important for everyone. Muscle burns calories. In fact, it burns calories while you're sleeping. IF you put in the effort, it'll pay huge rewards.

When it comes to eating, I use an online calorie journal. There are dozens, and they work. They make me pay for everything I eat. They also help me track what I need. I'd be lost without one at this point. The best diet I've found is one that simply follows the government's suggested daily consumption rules. You should get 40 percent from carbs, 30 percent from fat and 30 percent from protein. Also, you need to keep your sodium under 3,000 mg and try to get as much fiber and as little sugar as possible from those carbs.

A few important things. Make sure you eat enough calories. If you don't eat enough, you're setting yourself up for failure. One binge can spoil a diet. I eat 1,400-1,800 calories a day. Also, make sure you allow yourself some fat. Fat isn't the culprit. It's your friend. It helps you to feel full. I eat approximately 50 grams of fat per day. It's okay to go under, but you shouldn't cut it out completely. It's vital to your success. I allow myself a cheeseburger (cooked at home on the grill) once a week. I also allow myself a thin-crust pizza with ham and pineapple from Dominos once a week. Just eat 1/3 to 1/2 of the pizza. It won't hurt you at all aside from giving you too much sodium. The best advice I can give you is to eat lots of fresh fruit, fresh and frozen veggies and fresh meats. Remember, the stuff that isn't processed is better for you. I sometimes take three packs of chicken breast and throw it on my grill. I use for sandwiches, salads, etc. I try to have fresh meat with all of my dinners. I do eat lots of lunch meat, too. It's low in fat, almost too low. To keep it tasty, I fry a few slices of reduced fat bacon. It adds a nice crunch to my sandwiches and helps me look forward to them. I usually eat a sandwich with an entire bag of frozen veggies. Breakfast, as they always say, is the most important meal. The key to breakfast isn't about calories. It's about energy. This is when you want to fill up on protein and fat. I typically eat eggs or Egg Beatres with honey ham and cheese. I get as much as half my daily fat from breakfast. It evens out because I get very little fat for lunch. Don't just quit with eggs. Make sure to add bacon or ham to them. Ham is really low and fat and adds flavor. Always use cheese to help make those eggs tasty. And give yourself a slice of whole wheat toast with peanut butter. Shoot for 400-600 calories for breakfast. Keep up the great work. "

Dotty wrote on May 8, 2008 8:18 AM:

" Kudos to you Penny. good luck, I know you will prevail. You are doing what I have done, told EVERYONE, then you will not stop. I opted for the Adult Exercise Program at Eastern and it is as great as you are saying the YMCA is.

your column is always fun. "

Mama says wrote on May 9, 2008 2:49 AM:

" Hey Penny, Im not one of the top fans of yours now, see others like your column also. We may have start the Penny Fan Club after all. And people will see this cute gal in her truck and say,,,,WHO IS THAT HOTTIE IN HER TRUCK.
Why, I will reply, that is PENNY WEAVER.

I went from 341.8 to 293.4
I weighed this morning lost more and
am now 290.8,,,,,,I wanna weigh 130.
Instead of BigMama be LitleMama. "

grooverchip wrote on May 12, 2008 6:21 PM:

" Way to go, Penny! It is work, and it is hard, but it is worth it and the way you are going about it sounds wonderful. I've lost over 100 lbs in the last couple of years and one of the most important things I've learned is not to give up. I'm going to have bad days or even bad weeks sometines, but as long as I get back on track - that's what counts.
The energy I feel now is incredible, it's hard to even remember getting out of breath climbing stairs or trying to run.
Good luck to you, I know you can do it! "

 


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